Love - Relationships - Marriage

Real rich man is not money I

When men used to think women want a man to be rich, having the most ability to make her life being with him the most blissful, they painstakingly work hard to earn as much money as they can to attempt to achieve such a goal. Not until one day when this goal is reached would they know what a woman wants is a man who would touch and move her heart with what he exceptionally does to her. You may ask if the man buys her a bunch of expensive jewels or an extravagant house to touch her? No, it is not!
What a woman wants is a man to be present in her life with quality time, making her feel wanted, cared for, needed, and loved. A man who would take initiative to talk to her, a man who would like to look at her scouting what she thinks; a man who would easily smile at her; a man who would not mind unveiling his weakness or stupidity in front of her; a man who would share all his feelings and emotion with her without thinking men are superior to women; a man who would be totally present every time being with her; a man who would be more than willing to do housework because of her; a man who would learn how to understand and share the feeling of another with empathy.
Nevertheless, when a man goes to make the kind of enormous money, it is unlikely for him to do the above-mentioned. Why? It is time as well as arrogance. When a man acquires the mighty power to earn a lot, he would become occupied in time, his life would only be chock-full of important meetings and businesses to make money, and he would not have time left in the other areas of his life. With the money he earns, he would become not only rich but also overbearing rendering him brasher and brasher unable to be – humble – to touch a woman’s heart. To be continued…….

Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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