When a young couple goes into a marriage, they are full of beans thinking they will be good forever without coming to realize that time will fly and will make their bodies turn old and frail without their knowledge. Conceivably, at that moment, they will not have an awareness to cherish each other’s amazing physical outlooks but innocently take them for granted. As time brutally passes by, they will be sad and disappointed to find the other party’s body and outlook changed deplorably. Men, in particular, will find their wives far from how they looked before, uncontrollably evincing some kind of expression revealing loathsome making their women feel unhappy, embarrassed, and even depressed.

We are flesh and blood and will naturally turn old once born, every one of us is so only we are fond of escaping reality reluctant to make psychological preparation to look at our old faces with wrinkles and bodies with loose flesh hanging. Women are always blamed for having a pair of eyes with wrinkles surrounding them and a pair of breasts with loose flesh hanging rendering men hard to look at her face and reluctant to make love with her.

Physiology education is important, we have to educate people about our bodies, and let them know our flesh will turn old, weak, and ugly when we are aging. Men, in particular, have to know women are vulnerable to suffering from severe changes in their bodies when aging compared with men, and what they should do is cherish their women’s amazing bodies when they blossom instead of taking them for granted and sincerely accept their bodies when they turn old with love and care – when she is your wife – a woman who is not only special in your life but also have the most experiences with you with tears and joys rendering your life complete.

Men, if you have cherished your wife with love and admiration when she is blossoming, you will have enough and will know how to accept her when she ages. Ask yourself how long you haven’t looked at your wife, I have heard a man saying he hasn’t looked at her wife for ten years because of the bad relationship in-between, and when one day he looked at her again, he found her face changed deplorably with layer and layer of wrinkles printed on it. Finally, he awoke and learned that the wrinkles on her wife’s face did not grow in a short time but ten years. He confessed that he had missed looking at her pretty face for such a goddamned long time and felt guilty and heartbroken.

Marriage is realistic brooking no room for imagination, a couple has to grasp the knowledge of how the other party’s body will look like when aging and learn how to build a good relationship in-between in the entire journey of marriage so that they should know to cherish and accept.