What do you think the wonder of marriage is? Its decision made with momentum and sometimes even whimsy serves the most wonder of it, in my opinion. However, some lovers would somehow fall into some common pitfalls that can disrupt the flow of marriage, causing them to lose the smoothness and freshness of marriage that it originally embraced.

The first pitfall is engagement. Many lovers tend to hold an engagement first before going into a marriage, seeing such an act as romantic and precious. Nevertheless, the truth is engagement often inadvertently hinders the progression toward marriage, as lovers may become too comfortable in this status quo, lacking motivation to take the next step into marriage. To avoid this, lovers should consider bypassing engagement altogether and proceeding directly to marriage, ensuring they seize the right moment before unexpected challenges arise.

The second pitfall is the planning of the wedding ceremony. Doubting men’s ability to plan thoroughly and thoughtfully requiring immense care and time, the bride-to-be will usually take the lead in planning the wedding ceremony. Moreover, worrying about the perfection of the wedding, she would work exceptionally hard on it with demand and control. My suggestion is women would better approach the planning of the wedding ceremony rationally rather than emotionally. Instead of being overly demanding, she should tenderly demonstrate her affection and trust in her partner’s suggestions and ideas. Allow him to take the lead in planning until he seeks yours, reassuring him that he has made the right choice in marrying you. This approach will greatly enhance the tapestry of your marriage beyond the wedding phase.

For the sake of the smoothness and freshness of marriage, take as little time as possible in planning the wedding ceremony to avoid it becoming long and tedious.

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