‘No matter what has happened, you should have come to me first, I would have taken care of you and loved you, I would have even died for you if you found the problems we were in for could not be solved. Why? Tell me why you would exclude me from your misery not allowing me to be by your side when you were in the abyss of pain and agony seeking death? Do you know you had caused me infinite pain and hurt leaving me heart-bleeding, desolate, forlorn, afflicted, wretched, wrathful that nothing can heal? Tell me what would be worse than coming to me first before you took your own life, baby, you had done the worst! You have rendered me hysterically asking myself why you would not come to me and let me be by your side to face the hardship or the problems that you thought could not be solved. Why, why didn’t you come to me, why didn’t you let me be by your side? Tell me why you didn’t even try. You might never know how desperate I was to see you, to give you solace, to give you support and love, as a husband should and would do.’

The abovementioned is the hysterical outcry of a man’s intense agony with losing his wife. Conceivably, the excruciating pain of this man is irreparable and irremediable. Let go is the only way. However; it is far easier said than done when the grief involved is monstrously tremendous. It can take a great deal of time or even a lifetime. In this case, love can come to serve as a succor to reduce the time such kind of healing takes. If this man can be brave again to find love, find a woman whom he loves, and be able to share with her his story, and vice versa, he will have a sense of purpose in life and live again with meaning, getting to know life is eventually worth living with happiness only if we know how to move on.

Committing suicide is extremely timid, selfish, and irresponsible, regardless of whatever reason behind it. Never should anyone attempt to do it lest you should brutally break your loved ones’ hearts or distort the original life values they once embrace. If you truly care for your loved ones, seek help before you have the thought of committing suicide.