Generally, we feel unhappy for reasons. Say, when an old man is sick lying in bed suffering, he feels unhappy; when an aging woman looks at the mirror to find her face planted with wrinkles, she feels unhappy; when a mother has to labor a lot of chores, she feels unhappy; when an unintelligent man is hard done by his co-workers, he feels unhappy; when a husband loses his wife he loves, he feels unhappy. That is to say, we are not without reasons to be unhappy different from what many psychologists or life coaches have said. They tend to somewhat judge that we don’t know how to be happy, teaching us how to be happy with a lot of profound knowledge about medicine, citing some kinds of chemical compounds within our brain that can make us happy only if we know how to work on them. I doubt if it is real, if so, we will be happy all the time even if we encounter the above-mentioned. However; it has not ever been the case.

If the above-mentioned encounters are the culprit that makes us unhappy, what we can do is be a better person who would lose no effort to always make others happy. Say, we can place a lot of love and care onto our loved ones who are sick; we can say some nice words such as ‘lady, you look pretty today’ to the women who are growing old with wrinkles engraved on their faces; we can help our mom do some housework to make her not only less labored but also feels contented; we can treat our co-workers in a friendly and equal way without discrimination and, we can place more love and concern to the ones who have lost their loved ones. All of these are practical work that can be done by us to make people happy and create a more beautiful world. We cannot deny that we rely on one another to acquire happiness but not merely on some specific chemical compounds in our brains.

People are the indispensable element toward human happiness and well-being.