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The Real Consequences of Betrayal

Think about what is the primary reason for us to fear our betrayal getting exposed. I see many will say the reason is we are afraid of our significant half knowing our betrayal will severely slam us; not forgiving us rendering the in-between relationship unable to go on; seeing the devastation of betrayal has no remedy; and even when such a marriage may escape from divorce owing to the concerns of the upbringing of children or finances or other vital issues, the involved couple can hardly love or get along with each other as before they did.
Much to your chagrin, I tell you the abovementioned is only the prelude to the revelation of a betrayal. The main dish of the aftermath of a betrayal is revenge that the betrayer can by no means afford to take. The one being betrayed will slam the other party severely for the first place, it is only the very first stage of him or her being so immediately upon suffering such a blow. Gradually, he or she will seek revenge to mend his or her broken heart, seeing it as a scourge to the betrayer. It is human nature despite being the dark side.
Betrayal is not a mistake but a misdeed, it is unforgivable, for it is a deliberate act. People are conscious of doing it without reasons to legitimize them. The crux is they know what they do – that is they are hurting their significant half with consciousness when they can choose not to do so. Therefore, when you have a desire to have an affair, mull over it and consider if you can take all the consequences rather than blame or go crazy when the one you have betrayed does the same to you one day.
Now, you may know the main dish of the aftermath of betrayal is the real reason for us to fear our betrayal getting laid bare. It is also human nature, that we used to think it is no big deal when we hurt others; however, when we get hurt, it is the end of the world.
I am not encouraging people to take revenge, let us all not glorify negativity or hatred or grudge. Instead; I feel obligated to remind the betrayers that they may generate others’ revenge and they own the responsibility for taking all the consequences.

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Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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