I have been engaging in a marital introduction company for years, and what I have long witnessed is men are invariably prone to looking for younger women to marry. It has already been a hard truth without room for negotiation. One more recent phenomenon that further unfavorably impacts women is there are not a few men in these one or two decades who won’t plan to get married or be a father until they are in their forties or even later, having a career and sound finance able to live a life more comfortably, it can mean there will be more old-aged brides and mothers. It comes as a problem to not only women but also every layer of our human universe.

When all of us think there will be more rather old-aged brides and mothers when men prefer to get married late, cases are not completely as we think. Men, eventually, are fond of marrying younger women as their wives with a reason for their wanting of having babies, claiming older women are unfavorable to this aspect. That is men marry a woman not according to their age but the woman’s age. I have a male client who is forty-five asking me to look for a woman for him with the first criterion that she must be under thirty, bluntly claiming that having a baby in his life is his wish as well as his parent’s. He is not alone; there are many men out there who are so.

The thing is when men are prone to marry younger women, it will occur a phenomenon that women who are in their late thirties or forties will have to marry the group of divorced or widowed men who are approaching their sunset of life. However; nowadays’ modern women won’t settle for this harsh reality, for they have their sound education and finance as backdrop and backup, they are more than able to live their life freely and happily according to their wishes and desires, living their lives with quality and meaning considering that life has many possibilities rather than just marriage.

It can explain the situation why today so many women choose to be single – when – many young women are not willing to marry a man who is older than them a lot – and – women who are in their late thirties or forties won’t settle for marrying divorced or widowed seniors. Fair enough, that can also explain why many men are single too. There occurs an extreme incompatibility between these two sexes about marriage that has our world pay full and immediate attention to.