Freshness is normal in everyone but not just peculiar to females as many men see, only women tend to advocate long-term relationships with men, so they choose to give up advocating freshness of them but stay with one man even when the freshness of this man goes away. However, men are born desperate for the freshness of women in the need of their desire of having sex in a fresh way every time, they tend to dream of having different women in their lives.

Men have to come down to earth to recognize that freshness is a natural thing and it is short term, they should learn what makes freshness so mesmerizing is mostly out of pretension of a person, say, one will dress well, speak well, look well in the very first stage of a relationship to make themselves sexually attractive, and after getting along for a certain period, they will find there is no need to do it anymore, for they would find they have been together long enough becoming familiar to each other and, they let ‘familiarity breed contempt’ work on them by dressing casually, speaking rudely, or looking bad. What’s worse, at the time of making love, they never act as how they did for the first time. Given that, freshness decays and vanishes into thin air. Still, it is normal; however, men will strive to seek another woman for freshness to satisfy the need and desire of the sex he wants freshly.

The thing is, should a relationship between a man and a woman rely on freshness.? The answer is ‘no’. Freshness can only mean a shallow relationship that may only have sex. Only when having years of experience in a relationship can a couple be mature and deep enough to really love and know each other, and only this kind of quality relationship can make them achieve the most meaningful and wonderful life.