The psychological side of men who visit prostitutes literally drives our curiosity when the physiology of them doing so is pretty understood, gaining popular comprehension, sympathy, and forgiveness.

To men, it is likely a piece of good news when they hear renowned pianist Li Yndi has been detained on suspicion of visiting prostitutes. It hugely legitimizes them of patronizing prostitutes, for it can mean all men are so, they are not alone in being bad in this kind of behavior which women would adamantly loathe. To women, it is absolutely bad news when they know even a man who is so decent, owning a high quality to court any woman he likes would find prostitutes, making it hard for them not to forgive their husbands who have gone whoring.

Why would men patronize prostitutes? The answer would come easily as ‘men are bad and cheap’. However, it doesn’t prove the case all the way. Men and women are hard to understand each other, many times, men would resort to not getting along with women but find ways to release their emotions and feeling while solving their needs for sex from prostitutes. Prostitutes are always young women, they know how to treat the men who come to them tenderly, sweetly, and sexually to fulfill their needs. Although men know prostitutes engaging in sexual activity with men are money deals and what they do to them is not true, sincere, or willing, men don’t mind pay, it is men’s inborn characteristic, seeing sex can be a trade because they have such a kind of demand.

But why would Li who owns everything be more than able to court any woman he likes would give up doing so and seek a prostitute? Why would he abandon having true love? Why would he be so rotten? It may have many reasons. I see ‘character’ as the most crucial one of all. Courting a woman is not an easy task when a man is introverted, Owning an immense talent in art is mostly emotional people and sometimes they are not easy to express themselves, being not extroverted enough to court a woman, at last, they look for prostitutes to solve their physiological needs and at the same time release their emotion and feelings when most of the prostitutes would know how to talk to them with love and care with a hidden aim of wanting them to come back again. It is business but not real love despite its existing value and function which have helped reducing not a few crimes relating to sex.

However, I hope men can wake up and take their red pill, especially those who have wives waiting for them every night in the bedroom. Prostitutes are not for the men who have wives because they have already chosen true love, commitment, and responsibility. Women’s side, learn how to keep your men sleeping with you every night by having sex with them in the marriage. A concerted effort made in fostering a married relationship is of the most importance.