Have you ever wondered why we would have the courage to love? Think about when you were so fledgling for the first time to love, facing a person (who was a stranger before) of a different gender from you, letting him or her know more about you, where does that courage come from you to love this person?

I think we love for the first time a bit like a baby who learns to walk on his own foot, starting his life journey step by step. It is natural and encouraging when a baby knows he will learn more about the world with each step he takes in addition to gaining the profuse praises of his parents which has triggered his vanity.

Back to the first time you loved, I think the most important thing is you knew you were special in someone’s heart at that moment when before you thought you were just an ordinary person with nothing special. But with love, all of a sudden, you have a feeling of becoming extraordinary. All the more, you are mesmerized by this feeling and go-to love. It is quite magical and amazing.

Disregarding being mesmerized by the feeling of being viewed by him or her as extraordinary is right or wrong, such a feeling will, many times, render us daring to love in the first place. Such a magical first step of loving someone is awesome despite inexplicable when he or she makes you feel different and gain the power and courage to love, to let a person whom you didn’t know before know more about you.

You may ask if love is all about vanity. To a large extent, it is related.

In terms of love, vanity plays a major role as a trigger; hence, we have to exercise it with moderation, for such vanity will fade or even disappear with time. Vanity alone can by no means sustain a long-term or everlasting love. After vanity, it is the effort we have to wholeheartedly and sincerely make a relationship. Only when doing so will you not waste that person whom God creates to enter into your life and trigger your vanity, plucking up your courage to love.

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