Although it may risk attracting criticism or controversy, the not-quite-right advice on how to deal with extramarital affairs may be suggested.

Once you have an affair, you don’t have to immediately turn into a bad person. You still can be good to your significant other, doing by him or her in the same old good way. You are to love one more person in the world, you are a lovable person who believes in love, and that is the main reason you have an affair, illegitimately loving one more person in your married life. Many times, tragedy happens when one has an affair, he or she will become bad to their significant half, bearing dislike on them to pave a path of abandoning them.

In fact, the one who is with you in the affair also doesn’t like you to have viciously turned into a bad person, for what he or she wants to love is a person who is good, kind, and lovable. See to it that affair is to love one more person rather than love one less person. If you don’t have this ability to do so, stay away from affairs in your married life lest your stupidity and incompetence should hurt many. That is when one day you eventually need to break his or her heart, you may break it kindly.