We are born living our lives in stages and what we want is we can do everything needed in each stage perfectly to reach the aim of fulfillment in life.

When we grow up to be adults finish studying and enter into the real world working, it is probably time for us to make acquaintances. Among different kinds of acquaintances, we will possibly find our future spouses, many say it is destiny while some consider it serendipity. Whatever you like to name it, it is one of the most blessing things in our lives making us painstakingly pursue it, hoping the person we find will make our lives fulfilled and complete. Yeah, no one wants to leave a blank in our love path even when we have failed once or twice.

We are told our spouse will live with us sharing everything with us for the rest of our lives, right? Let me tell you further, our spouse will not only do the mentioned but also rewrite our lives to a better or worse one. You may say the outcome will stem from the quality of a marriage, indicating that having a marriage rife with extravagance will work wonders. You are not right despite you may explain why many will strive to make more money by working insanely hard for their marriage.

A grandiose honeymoon; a cozy house; a gorgeous car; a handsome amount of savings or investments; all these are many who plan to marry will strive to own by working crazily hard because they think only having these, they will have a happy marriage. The brutal truth is many who have done and owned the above don’t have a happy marriage as a result.

Does a comfortable married life need the abovementioned? I dare to say you nay and tell you how to acquire a marriage that will go blessed. Before marriage, learn how to be a kinder and better person; learn how to get along with your future spouse in a good and proper manner; learn to build up a healthy and correct mentality towards a marriage that requires a couple to cast in their lots with. Extravagance will only do a disservice to a marriage because it will corrupt a couple, causing them to unveil many weak or even ugly sides of human nature.

Bear in mind that the essence of marriage is humility. In a marriage, what we learn most is how to be humble. If you live a life of extravagance, you will fail to be humble. Only humility can be able to render your marriage happy and real. Do you know what I mean? If you are married, you will grasp what I say. However; I hope you understand it before getting married.

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