Love - Relationships - Marriage

Love has reasons

Why would you be loved by someone? Try not to offer your answer as ‘no reason’, everything happens for a reason, you are loved because you are good, kind, polite, attractive, lovable, etc. So, why will you be unloved afterward? Likewise, it has a reason, it is you have stopped being the above-mentioned as before you did because you have wrongly thought you don’t need to do so anymore, thinking the one who loves you has become your possession being in the palm of your hand. 
One critical question we have to earnestly ponder is why would we be loved in the first place. We would not be loved without reasons, when you are being loved, you must be special at that moment, remember that you are loved with reasons, and don’t forget all those reasons by making an effort to keep them alive so that you can continually be loved.
If you are loved by someone with your humor, don’t stop being humorous, if you are loved with your appearance, don’t stop being attractive, and so forth. Many people fail to be loved in the long run is stemmed from a kind of false conception they see once love is won being in their hands, such a person is their possession and they don’t have to make any effort anymore. It is the bad side of human nature that we are compelled to admit and rectify. See to it that never is love a possession to anyone. If you want to have a good, memorable and meaningful relationship with someone, work hard on the reasons and elements he or she loves you.

Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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