Love - Relationships - Marriage

Married life means a lot

Many times, we will like to think our lives were originally good and even perfect before we enter into a marriage. What we see is marriage will possibly make our life worse than it was before without us being mature and capable enough to realize that it is exactly the opposite. Firstly, we are by no means perfect, marriage in our lives is a life coach who will teach us how to be a better person with the one whom you claim you know, understand, and love for the rest of your life to get along with you rendering you truly and honestly live. Marriage requires us to be a better person in every way, and when we do so with a concerted effort made, we will become a better person instead of a worse one we mistakenly think.
Marriage is important because it is a commitment between a couple. Imaginably, we can randomly love anyone in our lives, say, Susan can love Peter, Robert, Samuel, etc. Why will Susan only love Peter in her life when she can love many others? It is her commitment to Peter with the marriage vows, pledging to him that she will only love him in her life without the redundant thought of loving others because she loves him and she feels enough to have him. Thanks to this logic and practice, our world effectively runs smoothly with a man and a woman getting married to continue our unique humanity without chaos.
Our world can be better to live only with married couples as a base. With married couples, our children can have the strongest bond of members of the two families involved. Children are our tomorrow, when they can have a happy and healthy childhood and upbringing with a father and mother in a marriage, they will make our world a better place to live when they grow up having their turn to continue the spirit and practice of marriage with their father and mother as a married couple as an exemplar.

Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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