We used to think a good relationship must first rely greatly on communication, and communication depends heavily on the language we use. Say, when two both speak in English, they would stand a higher possibility of having a good relationship than the other two with one who speaks in English and the other doesn’t. Discovery tells me speaking in a different language can also have a good relationship when recently I have attended a language exchange class experiencing something very special and different.

Communication requires our heart and soul, language used is just a tool within it. Whatever language we are using, a good and beautiful relationship will eventually come out when the people involved can communicate with each other with heart in a sincere and true way. Moreover, when such people involved are so humble that they are to learn another language to make effort in the communication, not minding to reveal how stupid or awkward they are in the process of learning it in front of others, it is all the more the magic way they build up their relationship as a foundation. When one is eager to learn his or her second language in such a way to build up a relationship with someone, it is the concrete foundation of their relationship that they earn to further foster development in the future.

We are to communicate with heart and soul but not just languages.