Love must have a foundation first, then experiences and tests. Love will be eventually flimsy when it is only established on the attraction of appearance or the magic appeal at first sight. The way how love begins is very important. It must begin with decency, love a person’s character instead of outlook attraction; love a person’s interest or hobbies to see if he or she can share yours; love a person’s mentality to find out if you are on the same page with him or her; love a person’s heart to witness if it is good or bad, kind or cruel.

There are factors and elements that make ‘love’ successful or failed, leading your married life happy or unhappy, rendering your entire life complete or incomplete. At last, never arbitrarily take love lightly thinking it doesn’t rely on effort or heart. Love requires tons of effort made so that it will be sustainable enough to breed value and meaning and get your life truly fulfilled.