Philosophy of life

Moment of growth

None an episode in life is more hurting than watching our loved ones pass away, we all hate to witness such a scenario, thinking it is more than cruel; however, it is the moment of growth, and it kindly leads us to a path of true growth. As though inspiring the perspective as it is, the aftermath of seeing our loved ones pass has its sentimental side as well.
Whenever we think of our loved ones who have left us, it will easily trigger our emotions upside down, for we have ‘love’ for them especially when we have got along with them for not a short time. The longer the time, the more loving memories are embedded in our minds. With the killing memories sticking in our minds that we cannot but constantly recall, we will somehow find we are hard or even impossible to live a normal and happy life after they are gone, and the worst is we will find such torment is nothing short of a scourge brutal and vicious enough to kill us.
Whenever we remember our late loved ones, we cannot but cry insanely with the most aches pressing our hearts denouncing us that they will never come back, rendering us unable to even breathe. If we want to survive such a terrible torment, we cannot but have to grow. It explains why experiencing our loved ones passing away is the moment of growth, for we have to grow or we will by no means survive. Hence, the inspiring and the sentimental part of experiencing our loved one’s passing are coexistent, for these two parts are correlated with each other.

Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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