Have you ever stood at a crossroads with your heart etched with the bittersweet memories of love that’s faded? Now and forever, you may want to retreat! If so, you are destined to blank out your future love path when you cannot even pluck up a little courage to seek love again.

May I reckon your response to loss is you dare not lose again, but I must tell you the truth is you love yourself so much that you would not allow yourself to get hurt again. It is not the essence of love. The profound truth: love, in its purest form, thrives on vulnerability. Love reveals its transformative power through giving, receiving, and the intertwining of joy and sorrow.

The magic is whatever you will lose again, you must gain something; and most importantly, what you gain is precious enough for you to be proud of, for you have unearthed the depth of strength and resilience you never know you have possessed. Loss is a hard-won lesson, it will become the armor that protects you, not from love itself, but from the naivete that can lead to deeper wounds.

Nothing in the world is certain with a guarantee, we can gain or lose in all areas of our lives. Within the uncertainty of love lies the very essence of its magic – the thrill of discovery; the shared laughter; the whispered secrets, and the quiet moments of companionship – that forge an intimacy that transcends the fear of loss. In the spectrum of love, we don’t have to worry about being a loser. A loser can mean a lot, for he or she will have a lot of valuable experience to share and go influence. Ultimately, to choose love is to choose life in all its messy, glorious complexity. Go enjoy the process of earnestly, sincerely, and blissfully loving someone to taste the essence of love, and when you are doing so, you are already a winner

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