What is a real strong man when every man wants to be strong enough to be his woman’s man? Not a few values tell us men have to be strong so that they can literally be a man, so every man strains every nerve to be strong in every way without paying full regard to what exactly a real strong man is. Since men learn that women want and need them to be strong, they tend to be strong in every way failing to earnestly fulfill it in a proper way.

When men know they have to be strong, they arbitrarily expose themselves to egoism and brashness all the way. The result is they don’t admit failures and mistakes; they are reluctant to reveal their weakness or shortcomings; they are unwilling to talk with empathy seeing it as feminine; the worst is they insist that they must win when having quarrels with their women seeing men losing to women is a shame.

In fact, men never know only when a man who would admit failures and mistakes can he be seen as real strong because he is courageous; a man who would reveal his weakness or shortcoming can be seen as real strong because he knows to be humble; a man who would talk to his woman with as much empathy as she wants can be seen as real strong because he doesn’t mind to show his feeling and emotion, a man who would let his woman win in every quarrel can be seen as real strong because he is good and kind towards women. All of these require a man’s inner strength, and it is the real strong part of them. No doubt, women need their men to be physically strong to protect them, but they all the more need them to be strong in mental, psychological, and spiritual areas to make our world a better place for women to live.