Breakups can have many different kinds of reasons other than many are fond of claiming it to ‘not love’. Break up doesn’t necessarily have to hurt the other party to the bitter end when we know to be kinder under any circumstances. On the whole, if there is still love or you had loved him or her in the past, when you go to break his or her heart, you can break it kindly instead of breaking it in a mean, cruel or hurtful way. What break-up has us learn is how to be a kinder person.

We all can be kinder because we have all the time been able to be conscious enough in determining to do so, this is the most significant difference between us and animals.