Pregnancy doesn’t come from a woman alone; it arises from the sexual behaviour of both a man and a woman when the man fails to take precautions to prevent pregnancy. Many men do not use condoms or rely entirely on women to take responsibility for contraception. However, when an abortion occurs, society will directly blame the woman who conceives the baby. Is it the world that we call civilized?

Have we ever stopped to consider why abortion will happen when no woman, in the first place, would favour undergoing a risky operation that may claim their life or damage their reproductive system? No woman would desire to experience such pain or danger unless circumstances leave her no other choice.

So, why have there been so many abortions? America claims the toll of abortion in their place four times outnumbers the Holocaust. Here, I won’t again argue with you that such an analogy is inappropriate and barbaric. Today, I want to tell the world who must be responsible for most of the abortions that have painfully hurt women physically and mentally.

Mostly, abortion takes place when the man responsible for the baby goes irresponsible, leaving the mother helpless when, at the same time, the mother finds herself unable to face the challenges of single motherhood. And, not a few cases tell us that some abortions are the decisions made by a couple with a variety of problems they are facing. The most tragic cases occur when women—often still fledgling and innocent—are victims of rape and are then forced by their families or society’s eyes to terminate the pregnancy. Such stories are heartbreaking and all too common, especially in some developing regions.

Abortion is not a decision made by a woman alone, but most of the time, with men, and because of men. Likewise, pregnancy happens not from a woman alone but from a man and a woman. We should not place all the responsibility or blame on a woman or even accuse them of murder. Such an accusation is horrible and reckless. We should educate men, for they cannot be irresponsible after rendering a woman pregnant. They must recognize that they are moral and duty-bound to share the responsibility of having and raising the baby when he is the baby’s biological father. Being a human means not shying from responsibility, which distinguishes us from animals. Only by fostering responsibility and compassion in men can we create a truly civilized and humane society.

Women won’t arbitrarily go for an abortion because they know they will live with the weight of regret, guilt, and longing for the child they abandoned. That is why our duty as a society is not to condemn them—but to understand, support, and prevent the injustices that drive them to such a painful decision.

The late American Charles James Kirk identified himself as a pro-reality person. In most of his debates, he invoked biblical doctrine to accuse women who had abortions of committing murder. He deliberately ignored countless brutal realities and life stories—many women who had abortions endured these experiences through tears of anguish due to men’s irresponsibility, wrongdoing, or misdeeds. We have reason to question whether he truly embodied the spirit of a pro-reality person. In my view, to be pro-reality means a person who believes in accepting and dealing with the world as it truly is, not to evade facts that challenge one’s beliefs when they actually know what the truth is.

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