Love - Relationships - Marriage

Hurt will get hurt

Men, never attempt to beat your wife when you are in a quarrel with her, never, never do that, even if it is just one time. Hitting your wife with your strength is not a real man’s act. The right way to evince a man’s masculinity is to protect his woman rather than arbitrarily or uncontrollably beat her.
Never try to think you will not be hurt with your fist swinging at your wife’s cheek or even her whole body. The consequence of doing it will cause you to live the rest of your life with tons of regret and agony. Whenever you recall beating her in such a demented way, you will find yourself less than a man, not to mention a human. Such a terrible chapter of memory would get you to hate yourself to such an extent that you would by no means forgive yourself. And, to avoid suffering from this gut-wrenching feeling, you would find ways to escape from recalling those memories by pretending they have never happened. Furthermore, you would spare no effort to evade your past and not allow anyone to mention it because whenever you recall it, those terrible chapters of memory of you beating your wife will be recalled too, making you suffer from the excruciating pain of hating yourself. In short, the pain you suffer will render escapism lacking all the meanings and hopes in life.
Be a real man, use your real strength in loving your wife. Only a man with real strength has the ability to do so. Hurting women would only brutally unveil your weakness rather than reveal your strength that men have to earnestly learn.

Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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