Sentiment - films, dramas

We Made a Beautiful Bouquet II

The concept of the movie doesn’t encourage lovers to cohabit but on the contrary, it delivers a message explicitly telling us cohabitation is not a proper or workable way to examine whether whom you love suits you or not as many lovers think it is. Contrariwise; the movie does honestly and brutally point to not a few flip sides of cohabitation that lovers never expect until they are diving into such a journey. The film has revealed that cohabitation can ruin not a few true and innocent lovers.
Why would a pair of lovers, in the first place, choose to cohabit rather than decide to go into marriage with a vow? Most of the time, the answer is they want to see if they can get along with each other happily and effectively, able to stand the test of time. Deplorably, many times, cohabitation would only prove lovers wrong in many ways leading them to break up. When two people cohabit, they would not take each other as seriously as they are husband and wife, thinking cohabitation is just an experiment, and they can anytime end it once they find fault with each other. When both are having such a concept of it at the outset, they will only easily give up once they encounter difficulty and, many times, just boredom and familiarity can purge their love to such an extent that they cannot but feel stifled.
Marriage is different, first, it is not an experiment that you can do it again and again to find results. Marriage is a commitment having a couple place gritty resolve to stay with each other with a vow. Such a pledge in a vow is the most touching thing in your life when you, on your wedding day, solemnly declare it to him or her with joy and tears, happily tell the world with pride and confidence that you have decided to stay with this person in the long run. Unlike cohabitation granting return, a husband and wife would see their marriage as a no-return path, and they would only do their best in their married life to reach this goal. You must argue that a married couple will divorce and in fact, many have done so, yeah, but it is totally a different thing compared with the breakup of cohabitation because a married couple has been sincerely and earnestly in marriage once with a vow, and such a vow of marriage requires them a very important thing they both have to own, it is their respect and faith towards each other with love.

Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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