What is the most crucial to a couple’s sexual life? It has nothing to do with money, material or power but everything to do with the relationship they foster.

Relationship is of the most crucial and effective element when a couple is to talk about sex. Quarrel in a marriage is commonplace, it is inevitable, so they both have to learn how to restore a bad relationship derived from quarrel to normal or even good after having it against each other. First and foremost, never should a couple easily go into quarrels or fights, for many times, most of them are unnecessary. Show your quality when various opinions arise between you and her by being calm, rational and mainly good to lead her to go into discussions, addressing the problems to matters rather than people.

When a good relationship happens to a couple, they would care for each other’s feelings and sensations when they are making love. On the contrary, bad relationship couples would only mind their self-interest to reach their self-satisfaction on the bed, ignoring or even disdaining the other party’s feelings and sensations. What’s worse, sometimes, men even will use the bedroom as a battlefield to win back their ego lost in quarrels with their women by having sex with them by force as retribution. Women sometimes are also irrational by being rude to reject their men’s asking for sex as punishment when they find they do by them bad in quarrels. Gradually and finally, they would exert themselves to use sex as a tool against each other in their marriage. It is the dark side of human nature that has us reflect and rectify. To be continued……..