You are destined to blank out your love path when you cannot even pluck up a little courage to seek love again. Your response to love is you dare not lose again, for you think you are incompetent to do so. But the truth is you love yourself so much that you would not allow yourself to get hurt again. I tell you it is not love, love is you would love somebody and let somebody love you regardless of the result. Whatever you would lose again, you will gain something; and most importantly, what you gain is precious enough for you to be proud of yourself.

Nothing in the world is certain with a guarantee, we can gain or lose in all areas of our lives, that is we will gain and lose, we don’t have to take them too seriously. In the spectrum of love, we don’t have to worry about being a loser, a loser can mean a lot. Go enjoy the process of earnestly, sincerely, and blissfully loving someone to taste the essence of love, and when you are doing so, you are already a winner.