Hello friends, I have written three books. They are ‘Marriage – The Dare To Love’, ‘A Silent Strong Man’, and ‘Judy’s Empathy’. The books are in a class by themselves, they are what they are, aiming at doing the best and contributing the most benefit to people. Instead of hoping to be a big author, I prefer to be a little one who writes with heart and passion with content that will make a contribution to the world rendering where we live a better place to inhabit. Hope you guys will like the books and support a little author who has wholeheartedly embraced the purpose of life to make our world a better place with the three books she has written as proof.
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Introduction of ‘Marriage – The Dare To Love’
As a veteran counselor in a marital introduction company, Judy Cheng aims at sharing some of the toughest experiences people encounter in their married lives; stories that are shared with tears, broken hearts, struggles, plights, and pains, which unexpectedly, turn out to be lessons of strength and wisdom leading to hope.
Enlightened by the stories of people who have suffered immensely but who are also not intimidated by the hurt and loss, Judy tells those stories as ruthlessly as they are. Those are amazing stories of people keeping hope and faith alive despite being beaten badly time and again by that very thing called ‘love’. The book is an extraordinary journey of love and relationship that readers would invariably find resonance, consolation, support, and insight.
Kirkus Review
A debut compilation of advice about love and marriage.
As a self-described counselor in a “marital introduction company,” Cheng has been doling out advice to the lovelorn for a number of years. Here, she offers the same gentle guidance she’s given her own clients, touching on a broad range of relationship topics—including couples’ quarreling, the effect of social media on communication, trust issues, affairs, and even problems with in-laws. Some of Cheng’s advice is inspirational in tone; for example, regarding one’s choices on life, she writes that “open doors are everywhere. You only need to dare knock on them.” At another point, she sagely advises bickering couples to think of each other as fine works of art to appreciate and admire. She also includes several client case studies, which are the most memorable parts of the book. In one poignant anecdote, for instance, she describes how an abused woman bravely decided to look for love again. However, some of Cheng’s assertions over the course of the book will make readers cringe, such as that a woman “should always know her place, behaving in the most proper way, lest the man who loves her at the outset should find her less than a woman later.” In one eyebrow-raising chapter she advises an unfaithful married man to keep his wife a secret from the other woman, who may wish to destroy “all that he has in order to reach her goal.” Her prose can also be rather clunky at times; in one particularly eye-glazing passage, Cheng writes, “Many or even all adults are lack of love. Such is the scarcity of love in the adult world that has all of us learn what we lack is not love but innocence and simplicity.”
Introduction of ‘A Silent Strong Man’
It was the biggest and most frightening day of her life. Judy Cheng could only watch helplessly with her family as her father, diagnosed in the final stages of colon cancer, was wheeled into the operating room. At that moment, Judy realized that as amazing as life can be, it is not always beer and skittles. As her father’s terminal illness began playing a significant role in her life as well as the lives of her three siblings, Judy prepared to courageously face what would become an uphill battle.
With moving honesty, Judy details how her father’s four children came together and pledged to provide him with as much love and support as possible as colon cancer ravaged his body. As her father relied on his strong will to slowly recover from surgery that removed vital organs along with the tumor, Judy provides a heartfelt glimpse into her caregiving duties as she and her siblings provided encouragement, unconditional love, and financial support. While each day passed, Judy shares how they all learned to live in the moment and embraced hope, even when the news about her father’s condition became less than desirable. A Silent Strong Man is the poignant story of an octogenarian’s journey through terminal cancer as the four apples of his eye stood by his side and learned valuable lessons about life, love, and family.
Kirkus Review
Cheng’s debut memoir offers a tribute to her father and life lessons about loving a stoic person. When the author’s father was diagnosed with the final stage of colon cancer and faced surgery, she and her adult siblings, May, Sam, and John, rallied around his hospital bed with support. They witnessed his responses to the pain and ravages of cancer, and Cheng came to understand that her father’s reserve had been his way of protecting his children: “Father used to hide the pain in front of us to avoid us growing sad.” The bittersweet gift of his illness was to release him from the bonds of stoicism. Curiously, Cheng’s mother, as portrayed here, seems to be an indifferent caretaker of her husband, which hints at aspects of their relationship that the book doesn’t explore. The author states in the preface that she wrote the memoir to remember her father and share what she learned from her experience. To that end, she aims to honor her parent, dispel myths about silent, strong fathers like him, and prove that such distant dads need love despite their seeming invulnerability. Cheng’s journey offers readers a glimpse of contemporary Chinese culture, including family-centered festivals such as Chinese Tung Chee and Chinese New Year, herbal remedies thought to be legitimate treatments for cancer, and the belief in the healing power of mahjong. Readers should be prepared, though, for explicit descriptions of bodily functions and surprising hospital events, such as when a nurse shows the family a plastic bag holding her father’s removed organs. Cheng’s message is also sometimes obscured by phrases that require deciphering: “Peremptorily, we were sentimentally forcible-feeble.” More often, though, the not-quite-right phrasings have a certain charm: “Inexplicably, life will be somehow decorated with backfire. And such is the backfire that will, in a way, make our lives more legendary.”Patient readers will warm to this memoir’s message to love one’s distant dad before it’s too late.
Introduction of ‘JUDY’S EMPATHY’
There is no denying that technology has provided us with as many opportunities as possible, letting us live a life with the most opportunities to succeed than ever before. We are obliged to owe our success to it by being grateful to thanking it for rendering our world ever progressive and advanced with no backward and return.
Nevertheless, when we throw our ability, energy, and time into doing what we want to achieve as a goal by employing nowadays’ technology, we cannot but rely on it.
Completely relying on something can be a very dangerous thing, that is the reason why I would have an idea and action to make my website over the internet, done with my immense effort, a book – something that will come out physically and substantially with everyone can grab it with both of their hands. I think if one day some problems unexpectedly or unavoidably happen to the system on which my website mainly and heavily relies in the area of technology, I will not lose everything with the book I make for you today.
With the physical book, you can grab it with both of your hands with no articles going missed with your fingers flipping through one page after another, that is Judy’s effort done in elaborately organizing them in a book for you when she knows not a few people invariably find it a bit hard or clumsy in navigating the Internet, who want to read all the articles on her website without missing one.
With the electronic book, you can read all the articles I wrote with no articles going missed with the mouse you hold to flip the book through one page after another on a desktop computer, or with your fingers to do so with your mobile phone, that is Judy’s effort made in elaborately organizing all the articles on her website in a book format for you when she knows not a few people invariably find it a bit hard or clumsy in navigating over the Internet, who want to read all the articles there without missing one.