Philosophy of life

A real life

Is a life concluded as good if its path is smooth having no or only a few obstacles? At first, I thought it is and at the same time envied those who can have this kind of life path. Very quickly, my thoughts changed, seeing this kind of life lacking meaning without having a person bringing out his or her inner amazing strength to confront difficulties. In fact, all of us have this kind of inner amazing strength inside our body, only it will be used when needed, and, if it is never used, it is a waste. Life can only be something when having enough harsh or even brutal experiences, and life is to teach us what it is when we always think we teach it what we are.
And, why do we have to be happy? We are happy not because life is so but because of the opposite. Many think that when shit happens in life, they are right to respond to it by being unhappy. In fact, they are wrong, the truth is we have to be happy always because shit will happen anytime. Only when we are happy can shit be gotten rid of us eventually.

Judy Cheng

Hello friends, I am from Hong Kong, living there and having decent education there. I am a mother of two sons and I work as a veteran counselor at a fully fledgling marital introduction company. I like to share with people some tougher experiences in the area of human relationships, marriage in particular. I find human nature is a mixed blessing. While we are bestowed upon enjoying the advantages of it, we can also flee the disadvantages of it. How? I will tell you in my books and blogs.
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